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Your Dating Secret Weapon

Ever wonder how a guy like Jack Nicholson gets dates?  Seriously, he’s an awesome actor but not the best looking guy in the world (sorry Jack!).  What is it about him that is irresistible and how can each and every one of us get some of his mojo?

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Jack has a dating “secret weapon” that is:

1)      Free

2)     Non-Lethal

3)     Available to Anyone, Anywhere, Right Now!


And that dating “secret weapon” is called self-confidence.  We are naturally attracted to people who seem like they have it all figured out, who look other people in the eye, are cool, calm, and incredibly sure of themselves.  Think of people like Sean Connery, Gwyneth Paltrow, Ellen, Barak Obama, and  Beyonce.  They all have unstoppable self-confidence and it’s sexy as hell!

I know what you’re thinking, “Yeah, but they’re stars!”  You don’t need to be a movie star, rock star, or TV show host to have self-confidence.  In fact, you don’t even have to have self-confidence to start acting like you have it!  Ever heard, “fake it until you make it?”  Self-confidence is one of those wonderful life skills that can be learned, practiced, and mastered by anyone, at any time!

So, how do you do it?

1) Your Perception of Yourself is EverythingConfident Asian Lesbian

The way you see yourself is the way the world will see you.  Pay attention to the words you use to describe yourself and how you talk to yourself.  Language is powerful and it can be used to build you up or tear you down.  If you catch yourself using negative self-talk, change the wording of what you are saying.  For example, instead of saying, “I’m too shy,” say “I’m a good listener.”

2) Do Things that Make You Feel Good

What makes you feel more confident?  Do you feel more confident when you’re dressed up or wearing make up?  Do you feel more confident when you go to the gym regularly?  Identify actions that you can do on a daily basis that makes you feel more confident and do them!

3) Cultivate the 3 Habits of Confident People

Walk Faster – Confident people have an energetic, purposeful stride.  Make sure you walk with your head up and make eye contact with people around you.

Good Posture – The way you carry yourself says a lot about you.  Confident people sit and stand up straight.

Compliment Others – By looking for the best in others, you’ll bring out the best in yourself, and make everyone around you feel great!

Remember, self-confidence is sexy, attractive, and irresistible.  If you’re on the dating scene and you’re looking for Ms. Right you can use this “secret weapon” to attract her to you.  Once you’ve gotten her attention, just be yourself.  Self-confidence doesn’t require that you be anything but the awesome person that you are, you just need to own it!

“A great figure or physique is nice, but it’s self-confidence that makes someone really sexy.”    Vivica Fox

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