Feeling like you or your significant other has “lost that loving feeling?”  Wondering how to get it back? 

In every relationship there are cycles like the changing of the seasons.  In summer you get to enjoy fun in the sun.  Life is great and your relationship is hot!  In the fall you reap the rewards of the bonding you did in the summer.  You feel close, connected and deeply in love.  You’re prepared to weather the winter where times can be tough and your bond will be tested.  You may feel like winter will last forever but spring will come.  In spring you will grow closer, plant the seeds of intimacy and connection again.  Spring is a time of rebirth in your relationship.  Soon it will be summer again too with all the fun and hot passionate love making! 

It’s important to be able to spot these “seasonal” changes in your relationship and not freak out.  Every season has a purpose and a place in the timeline of your life together.   Below I’ve showed you how to spot each season and what to do while your relationship is in it.

Summer – This is the honeymoon period (which will resurface in your relationship from time to time if you continue to grow with each other) and a fun time in your relationship.  You’ll feel “in love” and ignore your significant others faults. 

What to do:  Have fun!  Enjoy your significant other.  Have lot’s of hot, passionate sex.  Spend plenty of time together and groove on all the good vibes, just don’t lose perspective because…

Fall – After the honeymoon.  You’re feeling more grounded and moving into the deep love season.  You feel deeply connected.  You start to notice so-called faults and may have more disagreements. 

What to do:  Keep connecting with and learning about each other.  But take time for yourself.  Give each other space as you ease into this part of your relationship. 

Winter – Times can be tough in the winter.  This is when major problems can surface and you feel less connected to each other.  You may even begin to think that your relationship is over.

What to do:  Don’t despair, work on your relationship!  This is the time to dig in and work on solving your problems.  Communication is key.  If you do the work in winter you will have a beautiful…

Spring – The rebirth of your relationship and the rekindling of deep love.  After winter, spring is the sweet reward.

What to do:  Recognize that this is a time to reconnect with each other.  Start spending more quality time with each other.  Nurture your feelings of love and intimacy.  Go on vacation together and get to know each other again.

In a long term relationship you can expect to go through the seasons over and over again.  Each season may last weeks, months or even years.  It is important to know where you are, where you are heading and how to handle each change.  So the next time you feel like your significant other has “lost that loving feelin’,” you may just be going through a winter season and need to act accordingly.  The sweet reward of spring may be just around the corner! 

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Christine is The Lesbian Love Guru, Transformational Love Guide, and conscious love expert specializing in working with the lesbian and queer community. After struggling for years to make her first relationship work, she decided to learn everything she possibly could about relationships, communication, intimacy, human psychology, and most importantly - loving yourself. Christine never thought her journey to create lasting love in her own life would lead her to a dramatic career change but it did. Her quest took her around the world and finally to Tony Robbin’s Namale Resort in Fiji for a Life Mastery Retreat. While attending Tony’s seminar she realized there were a lot of women just like her struggling to attract their soul mate and create a deeply connected, passionate relationship that lasts. She decided right then and there she would take all her knowledge and put it to good use helping others. Since 2011 she’s helped thousands of women find love and create extraordinary relationships through her videos, books, blog (LesbianLoveGuru.com), online and live workshops, and one-on-one private coaching. She’s been invited to speak on the Conscious LGBTQI Love Telesummit and Happy, Healthy Lesbian Telesummit, write for the LGBT Relationship Network and has been featured in Go Magazine, on QueerFatFemme.com, and on CardCarryingLesbian.com. Her articles have appeared on Huffington Post Online, YourTango, and HER. In 2015 she wrote “The Lesbian Intimacy Manual: 28 Days to Deeper Intimacy & Connection” with her partner Leah Love to share the principles of Conscious Love, Sacred Sexuality, and Tantra with the lesbian community. She also co-authored "Conscious Love: Enlightened Relationships & Soulful Sex." As a Transformational Love Guide, Christine provides her clients a safe, supportive, and judgment-free space to discuss their love and relationship challenges. She leads singles through a powerful process to align them with love and attract their soul mates with ease. She helps them uncover and resolve hidden challenges that have held them back from experiencing the love they truly deserve with remarkable results. For couples experiencing a relationship challenge she supports them in quickly move from despair, frustration, anger, and overwhelm into feeling empowered with the tools they need to create the best relationship of their lives! Christine currently lives in Austin, Texas with her partner Leah Love and two beautiful daughters. They jokingly call their household a zoo because they’re animal lovers with two dogs, two mini pigs, a lizard, a cat, and probably some chickens, bunnies, or ferrets (who knows what they’ll adopt next!). When they’re not laying in the hammock together basking in the sunshine, they’re working on bringing more love into the world. Leah is a Tantra Goddess, Sacred Sexuality and Intimacy expert who helps women reclaim their sexual prowess. Together they teach intimacy and communication for couples, Tantra, erotic empowerment, sacred sexuality, and healing through touch. To discover what “Conscious Love” means to you and how you can cultivate it in your life download her “21 Day Guided Journal for Awakening Conscious Love” free for a limited time – http://www.lesbianloveguru.com/cljournal


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