Coaching with Bevin Branlandingham from QueerFatFemme.com

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Follow Bevin Branlandingham from QueerFatFemme.com as she goes through the coaching process: Blog Post #1 “I Got Back Together with My Ex and Started Relationship Coaching with the Lesbian Love Guru” In November of 2012 I started dating someone who I thought … Read More…

3 Things You Need RIGHT NOW to Feel More Connected…

lesbian couple cuddling on bench

Creating deep connection with your significant other requires 3 things – time, focus, and sharing.  When you feel disconnected from her, you can sure that you are missing one component of connection.  To re-establish deep connection you need to make sure … Read More…

Healthy Vs. Unhealthy Compromise in Your Relationship

compromise in lesbian relationships

We all have to compromise in our relationships with other people.  If you’re unable to compromise with other people – be it your significant other, child, or your friends – you can’t create healthy relationships.  Healthy relationships occasionally require compromise … Read More…

Creating Loving & Connected Spaces in Your Relationship

Intentional Spaces

  Use the power of intention to create a loving and connected space in your relationship to discuss problems and disagreements.  This is a simple and powerful way to create a more loving and connected lesbian relationship no matter how … Read More…

HQQT – the KEY to a Great Lesbian Relationship!

High Quality Quality Time

We’ve all heard the phrase ‘quality time’, and we all realize that it’s important to our romantic relationships.  But did you realize that many lesbian couples fail to focus on the actual quality in their ‘quality time’? Today, we’re going … Read More…

Why’d the Honeymoon End? Get the Emotional Connection Back!

Lesbians in Love

Have you lost that lovin’ feeling?  Do you remember the beginning of your relationship, when you felt completely connected and attracted to one another, and wonder where it went?  My goal today is to help you get back the connection … Read More…

Is this really about the peanut butter?

Peanut Butter

Life today is complicated.  I think we can all agree on that.  We’ve got work, family, bills, kids, pets, parents, friends, debt, cars, houses, apartments…and somewhere in there we’re supposed to make time for our partner, spouse, wife, love muffin.  … Read More…

3 Simple Relationship Boosters for Lesbians

Lesbian Pointing

Has your relationship gotten a little predictable and humdrum lately?  Solve common relationship problems with these 3 simple and easy things you can start doing right now to create a more exciting and fulfilling relationship! Laugh Together Laughing together creates … Read More…

Being Butch = You Are Awesome!

Butch Lesbian Awesome

I’ve received a lot of feedback lately about being butch and specifically being a proud butch in the lesbian community.  Here’s my response for all the awesome butches out there!  It’s also a great video for anyone who loves butches … Read More…